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The best way to educate children at home

Maybe you've wondered to yourself, what is the best way to educate children? In my opinion, if I have to answer it, then I say emphatically is on how the parents did the first setting for the early childhood development. This is because experience in childhood has always made ​​an impression and influence their development into an adult.

The first setting for the early childhood development that you should do is to build a good family environment for children. To realize this, of course, begins by fixing the attitude and behaviour of parents. Give a good role model to be emulated by the children. It is impossible if we want our children to be a good person but the behaviour of the parents do not either. If we are forced to impose on the child, then the child will feel pressured and stressed. This method will not work.

If the children are happy for us as parents, children definitely want to pay attention and listen to us. However, if an educator imposes its will, and harm their personalities because of the desire confrontation, then the educator's credibility will be broken in the eyes of the child. Remember, violence on educating children show that we have failed in educating children.

Love and compassion are the key to all the smoothness of all affairs. Not violence! And giving a good family environment to the children is the best way to educate children.


Parents definitely better educate their children at home

Parents definitely better educate their children at home
Children are the most beautiful gift God has given to us. For that we should be grateful in a way to give the best for them. Not only material needs, but also non-material needs such as education and counselling.

Many parents think that educating children were meant to transfer knowledge and nurture it. So that the parents send children's education only to school or other formal institutions. When in fact the essence of education, is not it. I think the essence of education is to build positive character and potential latent in a child that appears, and then raise and develop which then can be beneficial to himself, family, community, and country. And, I believe that the role is to do the task are the parents in the home because the intensity of the communication is mostly done between parent and child. However, it does not mean the school is not good for children's education.

Humans learn by imitating or copying of the natural surroundings or environment. As proof, you can know how early humans learned to hunt from the beast, with strong nails and fangs and sharp, the animal is able to subdue prey. Then, humans made device resembling a nail or a sharp and powerful fangs of rock or wood. The fact is humans are learning from the environment by imitating. Likewise, a child, he will learn how to mimic the environment in which he lives.

From the brief description above, it is clear that a good parent, must educate their children at home than send them to a formal school. Due to the fact, the positive character and potential latent in the person of a child was largely shaped by the circumstances that created the child by the parents at home. Instead of teaching children about school lessons, the most important is to offer a good role model for them imitate the good things from the environment.


Parent's mistakes in educating children

Parents often use force and violence when the children make mistakes or do not obey their orders. Educational methods such as these cannot be accepted by the children.

Children do not like dictation and advice directly because of the way they perceive it as an attempt to turn their wishes. This is the parent's mistakes in educating children.

Attitude always blame the child, belittling opinion, and ignored can lead to fatal for children. If we are to give meaning or lesson to the children, then we should use a convincing manner, rather than using coercion and violence in providing advice and direction. Discussion and persuasive methods to attract the attention of children. The best way to educate children is to not hurt the child's personality.


The Several Actions to Develop a Child's Personality

One of the parents responsibilities are develop a child's personality and educate the children  in the right way . To carry out this, there are several actions that must performed. But there are also some actions that should be avoided because it will adversely affect child development.

The results of some research suggests that the several actions to develop a child's personality is :
  • Assertiveness from parents or teachers. Restrictions and regulations of the parent firm will be able to help the child to condition themselves, and adapt to the social environment. This will create stability and mental health for children. So they will be able to work and be able to carry out all his personal affairs.
  • Make your kids feel that they can depend on her abilities. motivate children with gifts if they have been successful in carrying out the tasks we have given. Giving gifts to the kids, will give birth to a sense of confidence in their souls, and other positive behaviors.
  • But what if they make a mistake, do not ever hit her or convict them with hurtful words. However, give them an explanation as well as the attitude of your firm. Using the methods of threats and violence will not encourage the child to do the job better. And people are always accused and condemned will not produce something of quality.
If the parents do not care about their children's mistakes that ever been made, It will cause their kids will not have a sense of responsibility.


Educate Children through Parents Behavior

Children tend to follow what he knew from the neighborhood. Family circumstances as the immediate environment should give good examples that deserve to be followed children voluntarily.

A child emulate and imitate the behavior of the person she liked, and trying to look like a man to her liking. It was a fact that must understand and cleverly exploited by the parents and teachers. Do not allow children to mimic the behavior exhibited crappy video games or movies that became his idol, because they love it. Try as much as possible so that parents and teachers can become an idol of children.

Educators used as exemplary role models for those who live around him, always consider all of his behavior and always heard his words, then he should consider his actions before giving advice and encouragement to those. So that appeals can accepted by others, especially children, the actions must match words. It is important to grow the perception and credibility of teachers and parents in their eyes.

We will not able to bring our children to stay away from friends who are not good, if we are friends with people who have properties such as our children's friends. Or we ordered them to independently work on their various necessities of life, while we rely on other people to do a job, and show the weakness and our inability in front of them.
We can close that educate children well should start with improving our behavior first


The importance parents full attention to the develop healthy mental children

Various studies results have suggested that differences in the level and type of care the parents of a child, having influence on the children mental development

The teenager unmet need for love and affection of their parents or parents who feel lost because of busy at work, so these kids have tendency be affected and rely on the their friends opinions to meet her emotional needs.

While the parents who showed his patience in educating their children, then their children will naturally develop the ability to face the challenges of life, and have ability to rely on himself.

Thus it is clear to the parents should give lots of attention to educate children because it will give good mental development for them, so that our children will not  affected by bad behavior from outside