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Showing posts with label child. Show all posts


How to Build an Honest in Children

Of course all parents want their children to have an honest nature. because of honesty like a medicine, even though it tastes bitter but it can cure a disease. Everyone must honest, all the problems of everyone's life will easy to resolve. But if a person's life is filled with lies, How then are we going to find the correct way to solve everything. it lies even misleading deeper life.

To foster honest in oneself, it should be done from the time when he or she was a child. With accustomed honest living from since childhood, then a child be able to feel the benefits of living honestly then the child willing to decide that he / she had to live with honesty, finally the honest always be attached to them until become an adult.

Want to know how to build an honest in children? follow the steps below that you can apply to your child at home:
  • Make sure that you always tell the truth.
  • Do not ever lie to your child even trivial. If you have lied to your child, then your credibility tarnished
  • Keep your word when you have promised them
  • Tell the story of the great hero who are honest to motivated at bedtime
  • Provide daily tasks appropriate to the children's ability to train honesty, responsibility and discipline, and do not scold them if your children do not do it. Give a gift if the children have managed to carry out daily tasks. Make a chart of children honesty to monitor progress
  • Pretend not to know if your child is lying and find the cause of why your child have to lie and then look for a way out.


The Several Actions to Develop a Child's Personality

One of the parents responsibilities are develop a child's personality and educate the children  in the right way . To carry out this, there are several actions that must performed. But there are also some actions that should be avoided because it will adversely affect child development.

The results of some research suggests that the several actions to develop a child's personality is :
  • Assertiveness from parents or teachers. Restrictions and regulations of the parent firm will be able to help the child to condition themselves, and adapt to the social environment. This will create stability and mental health for children. So they will be able to work and be able to carry out all his personal affairs.
  • Make your kids feel that they can depend on her abilities. motivate children with gifts if they have been successful in carrying out the tasks we have given. Giving gifts to the kids, will give birth to a sense of confidence in their souls, and other positive behaviors.
  • But what if they make a mistake, do not ever hit her or convict them with hurtful words. However, give them an explanation as well as the attitude of your firm. Using the methods of threats and violence will not encourage the child to do the job better. And people are always accused and condemned will not produce something of quality.
If the parents do not care about their children's mistakes that ever been made, It will cause their kids will not have a sense of responsibility.


The importance Family Environment for Children's Education

The childhood experiences has a big influence in building children personality. There are essential to realizing formation of self intact, which could not be achieved except by giving full freedom to the child and foster independence soul. To fulfill this, family environment has a very important role for children's education. Because of through this activities, a child will get a large influence. Good family environment will have a sense of love and mutual help, which based on the strong bond between families, and has a large contribution in build a child's personality. It can motivate children to develop themselves and improve their capabilities and potential.

Meanwhile, when the family neglect their children, this condition give negative effects for a child personality. The loss sense of love and family causing bad result in education. They feel such neglected and abandoned, and hinder its ability to foster a sense of self-esteem that can benefit themselves and the community around it.

The right education is education that provides direction achieved a varieties objectives and activities. Motivate children achieved its objectives and carry out various activities, to drive him to success as well as providing a sense of confidence in him. Moreover, it can also provides an opportunity for him to showcase his personality also meet physical needs, psychological needs, and social needs. Finally he was able to blend in and adapt to other people.

Various research shows that training and educating children since childhood, giving a positive side to hone his personality and behavior. Like the wise people said: "Someone who seek knowledge since a child was like carve in a stone, and the person who study as mature was like those who wrote on water".