Showing posts with label educate children. Show all posts
Showing posts with label educate children. Show all posts


The best way to educate children at home

Maybe you've wondered to yourself, what is the best way to educate children? In my opinion, if I have to answer it, then I say emphatically is on how the parents did the first setting for the early childhood development. This is because experience in childhood has always made ​​an impression and influence their development into an adult.

The first setting for the early childhood development that you should do is to build a good family environment for children. To realize this, of course, begins by fixing the attitude and behaviour of parents. Give a good role model to be emulated by the children. It is impossible if we want our children to be a good person but the behaviour of the parents do not either. If we are forced to impose on the child, then the child will feel pressured and stressed. This method will not work.

If the children are happy for us as parents, children definitely want to pay attention and listen to us. However, if an educator imposes its will, and harm their personalities because of the desire confrontation, then the educator's credibility will be broken in the eyes of the child. Remember, violence on educating children show that we have failed in educating children.

Love and compassion are the key to all the smoothness of all affairs. Not violence! And giving a good family environment to the children is the best way to educate children.


Parents definitely better educate their children at home

Parents definitely better educate their children at home
Children are the most beautiful gift God has given to us. For that we should be grateful in a way to give the best for them. Not only material needs, but also non-material needs such as education and counselling.

Many parents think that educating children were meant to transfer knowledge and nurture it. So that the parents send children's education only to school or other formal institutions. When in fact the essence of education, is not it. I think the essence of education is to build positive character and potential latent in a child that appears, and then raise and develop which then can be beneficial to himself, family, community, and country. And, I believe that the role is to do the task are the parents in the home because the intensity of the communication is mostly done between parent and child. However, it does not mean the school is not good for children's education.

Humans learn by imitating or copying of the natural surroundings or environment. As proof, you can know how early humans learned to hunt from the beast, with strong nails and fangs and sharp, the animal is able to subdue prey. Then, humans made device resembling a nail or a sharp and powerful fangs of rock or wood. The fact is humans are learning from the environment by imitating. Likewise, a child, he will learn how to mimic the environment in which he lives.

From the brief description above, it is clear that a good parent, must educate their children at home than send them to a formal school. Due to the fact, the positive character and potential latent in the person of a child was largely shaped by the circumstances that created the child by the parents at home. Instead of teaching children about school lessons, the most important is to offer a good role model for them imitate the good things from the environment.


How to Build an Honest in Children

Of course all parents want their children to have an honest nature. because of honesty like a medicine, even though it tastes bitter but it can cure a disease. Everyone must honest, all the problems of everyone's life will easy to resolve. But if a person's life is filled with lies, How then are we going to find the correct way to solve everything. it lies even misleading deeper life.

To foster honest in oneself, it should be done from the time when he or she was a child. With accustomed honest living from since childhood, then a child be able to feel the benefits of living honestly then the child willing to decide that he / she had to live with honesty, finally the honest always be attached to them until become an adult.

Want to know how to build an honest in children? follow the steps below that you can apply to your child at home:
  • Make sure that you always tell the truth.
  • Do not ever lie to your child even trivial. If you have lied to your child, then your credibility tarnished
  • Keep your word when you have promised them
  • Tell the story of the great hero who are honest to motivated at bedtime
  • Provide daily tasks appropriate to the children's ability to train honesty, responsibility and discipline, and do not scold them if your children do not do it. Give a gift if the children have managed to carry out daily tasks. Make a chart of children honesty to monitor progress
  • Pretend not to know if your child is lying and find the cause of why your child have to lie and then look for a way out.