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Parents definitely better educate their children at home

Parents definitely better educate their children at home
Children are the most beautiful gift God has given to us. For that we should be grateful in a way to give the best for them. Not only material needs, but also non-material needs such as education and counselling.

Many parents think that educating children were meant to transfer knowledge and nurture it. So that the parents send children's education only to school or other formal institutions. When in fact the essence of education, is not it. I think the essence of education is to build positive character and potential latent in a child that appears, and then raise and develop which then can be beneficial to himself, family, community, and country. And, I believe that the role is to do the task are the parents in the home because the intensity of the communication is mostly done between parent and child. However, it does not mean the school is not good for children's education.

Humans learn by imitating or copying of the natural surroundings or environment. As proof, you can know how early humans learned to hunt from the beast, with strong nails and fangs and sharp, the animal is able to subdue prey. Then, humans made device resembling a nail or a sharp and powerful fangs of rock or wood. The fact is humans are learning from the environment by imitating. Likewise, a child, he will learn how to mimic the environment in which he lives.

From the brief description above, it is clear that a good parent, must educate their children at home than send them to a formal school. Due to the fact, the positive character and potential latent in the person of a child was largely shaped by the circumstances that created the child by the parents at home. Instead of teaching children about school lessons, the most important is to offer a good role model for them imitate the good things from the environment.


How to Educate Your Children to be Independent

The parents would want their children to be independent . Then where will the means to educate their children so that they have a standalone? Here are some things you can do to train them.
  • The key in educating children to be independent is to familiarize them to carry out daily tasks. Before you give a list of daily tasks to them, make sure that you are really busy and really need help in taking care of the house. With so hopefully they awakened to help us. Do not immediately give daily tasks for kids as well and don't force it to them.
  • If the kids excited to help us, and give orientation-light duty first. Do not give the task in which they can not endure. remember! this is its first aid.
  • If you have a maid at home, show the children that their job is simply to help us. My advice you should not have a maid at home. Because if the kids maintained by the maid, the children will get used to rely and depend on others to meet all their needs.
  • Along with the increasing age of children, increase gradually to their daily tasks, step by step. create age appropriate chore charts for your children. Once again, be careful when giving daily tasks for children. If necessary, do bargain with your child. The most important thing for us is that they want to do something to help homework.
  • Every now and then explain to them how importance of having independent properties.


Educate Children through Parents Behavior

Children tend to follow what he knew from the neighborhood. Family circumstances as the immediate environment should give good examples that deserve to be followed children voluntarily.

A child emulate and imitate the behavior of the person she liked, and trying to look like a man to her liking. It was a fact that must understand and cleverly exploited by the parents and teachers. Do not allow children to mimic the behavior exhibited crappy video games or movies that became his idol, because they love it. Try as much as possible so that parents and teachers can become an idol of children.

Educators used as exemplary role models for those who live around him, always consider all of his behavior and always heard his words, then he should consider his actions before giving advice and encouragement to those. So that appeals can accepted by others, especially children, the actions must match words. It is important to grow the perception and credibility of teachers and parents in their eyes.

We will not able to bring our children to stay away from friends who are not good, if we are friends with people who have properties such as our children's friends. Or we ordered them to independently work on their various necessities of life, while we rely on other people to do a job, and show the weakness and our inability in front of them.
We can close that educate children well should start with improving our behavior first