Don't Do the Beating in Educating Children

Educational methods using a blow by an educator to educate children, is a sign that he had failed to find a suitable way to influence and improve the child's attitude.

An educator has been wrong if he believes that the methods of violence and beatings he can educate the next generation has responsibility. Due to such treatment, he actually had killed several elements force the most important child's personality. due to the beating action it would seem the people whose souls, as follows:

• Coward. Children will always be afraid of his parents, which resulted in not going to create a harmonious relationship between them. Children will always try to stay away from the parents, They will scared and ran to their room when They saw their parents, and if their parents passed near them, They will shiver and bow.
• Always in doubt. They did not have confidence, always in doubt, and do not have ability to decide the outcome. It will be obvious when adult.
• Isolated and do not have ability to build relationships with others. They are a private person and insecure and lacks personality traits that stand out.

Recently, there is a scientific research conducted by the University of New Hampshire in the UK, stating that students who get a lot of beating, resulting in their ability to think, read, and calculate decline. While the students who never get a beating, get better results on the three areas above.

The Several Actions to Develop a Child's Personality

One of the parents responsibilities are develop a child's personality and educate the children  in the right way . To carry out this, there are several actions that must performed. But there are also some actions that should be avoided because it will adversely affect child development.

The results of some research suggests that the several actions to develop a child's personality is :

• Assertiveness from parents or teachers. Restrictions and regulations of the parent firm will be able to help the child to condition themselves, and adapt to the social environment. This will create stability and mental health for children. So they will be able to work and be able to carry out all his personal affairs.
• Make your kids feel that they can depend on her abilities. motivate children with gifts if they have been successful in carrying out the tasks we have given. Giving gifts to the kids, will give birth to a sense of confidence in their souls, and other positive behaviors.
• But what if they make a mistake, do not ever hit her or convict them with hurtful words. However, give them an explanation as well as the attitude of your firm. Using the methods of threats and violence will not encourage the child to do the job better. And people are always accused and condemned will not produce something of quality.

If the parents do not care about their children's mistakes that ever been made, It will cause their kids will not have a sense of responsibility.