Parent's mistakes in educating children

Parents often use force and violence when the children make mistakes or do not obey their orders. Educational methods such as these cannot be accepted by the children.

Children do not like dictation and advice directly because of the way they perceive it as an attempt to turn their wishes. This is the parent's mistakes in educating children.

Attitude always blame the child, belittling opinion, and ignored can lead to fatal for children. If we are to give meaning or lesson to the children, then we should use a convincing manner, rather than using coercion and violence in providing advice and direction. Discussion and persuasive methods to attract the attention of children. The best way to educate children is to not hurt the child's personality.


How to Build an Honest in Children

Of course all parents want their children to have an honest nature. because of honesty like a medicine, even though it tastes bitter but it can cure a disease. Everyone must honest, all the problems of everyone's life will easy to resolve. But if a person's life is filled with lies, How then are we going to find the correct way to solve everything. it lies even misleading deeper life.

To foster honest in oneself, it should be done from the time when he or she was a child. With accustomed honest living from since childhood, then a child be able to feel the benefits of living honestly then the child willing to decide that he / she had to live with honesty, finally the honest always be attached to them until become an adult.

Want to know how to build an honest in children? follow the steps below that you can apply to your child at home:
  • Make sure that you always tell the truth.
  • Do not ever lie to your child even trivial. If you have lied to your child, then your credibility tarnished
  • Keep your word when you have promised them
  • Tell the story of the great hero who are honest to motivated at bedtime
  • Provide daily tasks appropriate to the children's ability to train honesty, responsibility and discipline, and do not scold them if your children do not do it. Give a gift if the children have managed to carry out daily tasks. Make a chart of children honesty to monitor progress
  • Pretend not to know if your child is lying and find the cause of why your child have to lie and then look for a way out.